LETTING GO
We embark on many journeys and undertakings, rarely having the knowledge we need. We may obtain a theoretical degree, but find it is utterly useless in real life, because the theory rarely agrees with the practical actualities of a profession or career.....real life is very different from what writers ordain it to be, so we learn as we go along, making many mistakes, wrong turns and unwise decisions. There is no place to find the information we need, until we are in the situation and then we battle through it on our own. Before anything is revealed we must sign on or sign up for this and that and whatever. . or accept some offer and then we are stuck inside not knowing how to escape the situation. Unfortunately it is part of this modern life we live...forever dealing with dead computers which we have to instruct and tell what to do....if we know ourselves, there is no one to talk to and ask for advise, there seems to be nothing living to have a discussion with...a very strange situation indeed. Instead of being eaten alive by anger and frustration, rage and revenge which can hold us trapped for many years, if not an entire lifetime....so it is often more profitable to acknowledge the wrong paths taken or unwise decision, cut our losses and move forward. We have gained the experience at a very high cost, we leave the situation behind and start again.....to try and fight a dead system, or take revenge, or involve courts and lawyers can steal years of our life and hardly ever with the desired results. We lose more in the long run and still have to start over, where we could have just used that time and energy to start something better and move forward...
Monica Maartens ©Copyright
11 February 2018
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