EXPLAINING AND UNDERSTANDING
How can we overcome this failure or any failure? We lay it all on the table....the pressures, the difficulties of living in a financial world where everything MOVES AROUND MONEY. ..the mockery at school when the children don't have what they need, the immense cost of it all....the clothes, shoes, books, accessories and everything else that goes with it....the difficult choices to make....be at home for them and let them be without what they need for school or go to work and not be there for them emotionally???? Explain the full situation to the child so they can understand the predicament you are in. Children understand far more than what we give them credit for and when we involve them in our lives more so they can see both sides, the less chance an outsider will have to lure them away. When they FEEL part of the family's decisions and discussions, they FEEL INVOLVED AND IMPORTANT and bring their side....simply because they FEEL WANTED AND NEEDED by the family. It is when a child feels isolated and cast aside, due to the stress and lack of time, that they are easily pulled into a life away from the family....
SO INCLUDE THEM IN EVERYTHING AND HOLD THEM CLOSE, EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY AND SPIRITUALLY....
Monica Maartens ©Copyright
06 Feb 2018
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