MANS HUMANENESS AND CONDUCT

DOORS INTO DEEP THROAT.....

MAN IS CREATED TO CONDUCT HIMSELF IN A DECENT HONOURABLE MANNER. There are certain characteristics that make us humane. Consideration is top on the list, we are not meant to trample on each other, but to all work together for the benefit of everybody......helping each other. All this is wrapped up in GODLY LOVE...... kindness, respect, compassion, honesty, neighbourly love, trustworthiness, etc.... When we exit the "white zone" of humaneness into the grey zone, every thing becomes vague and blurred and we can no longer distinguish between right and wrong -  BUT........WHAT EXCUSE WORKS THE BEST. We corrupt and pollute our own purity and self respect.

PURITY IS THE VERY FOUNDATION OF HUMANENESS....

TRUTH IS THE BUILDING BLOCKS ON WHICH WE BUILD A LIFE OF FREEDOM..

LOVE IS THE CEMENT WEAVING ALL TOGETHER....

When we keep to this we will never need to hide words or deeds with lies, deceit or excuses....there is nothing to fear, nothing hidden, no secrets, no dirt to trap us..... 

These are the three trees we plant and nurture throughout life, when we stray we go into the grey areas and there deep throat waits for us to swallow us into darkness....convincing us it's okay, no one is watching, if you don't talk, I won't talk....famous last words, it's just a little white lie....there is no such thing as a white lie...a lie is a lie. NO ONE NEEDS TO KNOW, IT BECOMES PART OF THE SHADOW OF OUR LIFE THAT FOLLOWS US FOR ALL TIME....THE SHADOW OF DEATH....SEPARATION FROM LIGHT AND LIFE, IT DARKENS OUR MIND AND SHOWS IN OUR ACTIONS AND WORDS. We become skittish, defensive, nervous, irritated, filled with fear and it always feels like someone is following us and ready to pounce at any moment...and there is....our shadow, we all have to give account of our lives...that day arrives for us all. As long we go down these paths everythung is hunky dory........UNTIL WE REACH A DOOR TOO HORRIFIC AND WE REFUSE TO ENTER AND WANT TO TURN AWAY..........THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN NOTHING IS HUNKY DORY ANY MORE AND ALL OUR PAST INDISCRETIONS, SECRETS, LIES, CHEATING, BRIBERY, BLACKMAIL, SHORT CUTS, SHAME, DISHONESTY, IMMORALITY, INFIDELITY, ETC, ETC, ETC....ALL COMES FALLING ONTO OUR HEADS.....LIKE A BULLDOZER PUSHING US FROM BEHIND INTO THIS HORRIFIC DOOR, BECAUSE THE ONLY WAY OUT IS TO COME CLEAN AND BY THIS TIME WE HAVE BUILT A CAREER, A FAMILY, A LIFE AND WE MAY LOSE SOME, OR ALL OF IT, IF THE DIRTY LITTLE SECRETS COME INTO THE LIGHT...THIS IS EVEN MORE HORRIFIC THAN THE HORRIFIC DOOR..... WE KNOW WHAT WE HAVE DONE, SO WE HOPE FOR THE BEST FORWARD. THE ONLY ALTERNATIVE IS TO FACE OUR PAST AND GET IT OVER AND DONE, BECAUSE FACE WE WILL ANYWAY.... BETTER SOONER THAN LATER BEFORE EVEN MORE EVIL AND SHAME IS ADDED TO IT, BECAUSE FROM HERE ON IT GETS REAL DARK....REAL EVIL.....REAL BAD. IT IS FAR BETTER FOR US TO EXPOSE OUR OWN LIFE SO NO LITTLE TAILS ARE ADDED ON....THE TRUTH, THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH, AND THEN WE WILL CLEARLY SEE HOW AND WHERE WE WENT WRONG....WHO SEDUCED US, WHAT LURED US, HOW WE GOT WHERE WE GOT. THEN IT IS DONE AND OVER AND WHEN OUR FAMILY LOVES US, THEY WILL STILL BE THERE, THROUGH ALL THE SCANDAL AND SHAME. When this is TOO MUCH and we DO ENTER THE HORRIFIC DOOR USING OUR EXCUSES "SUCH IS LIFE" OR "I HAD NO CHOICE", OR " I WAS FORCED".......LIES....LIES....LIES......

LIFE IS TRUTH, HONESTY, PURITY, DIGNITY, DISCRETION, HONOUR, LOYALTY, TRUSTWORTHINESS, ETC....

We had A CHOICE before we did what we did....

We still have a choice....come clean and get it behind the back....

BEST BY FAR....WALK THE STRAIGHT PATH....WE KNOW RIGHT...HOLD ON TO IT.

No one forces us - OUR PAST CATCHES US....without a secretive, dishonest past, there is NO THROAT TO SWALLOW US. ©

Tomorrow....a closer look at the three trees......

DOORS TO DEEP THROAT

JAWS WIDE OPEN

Purity and love is wrapped in flesh,

humaneness given vessels of DNA mesh,

into chromosomes are planted characteristics,

when we cross the lines we become statistics.

We exchange our purity for lusty temptations, 

hide it in lies to disguise our sensations,

we have a choice between right and wrong,

but a deep desire is just too strong.

Fear of punishment makes us hide away,

fear of exposure brings shame into play,

we depart from the light into the grey,

use excuses to overcome our dismay.

Deep throat opens its jaws very wide,

deeper into the darkness we slide,

confusion and fear become our partners,

as lies and deceit take us into darkness.

We need no help, did it all on our own,

the truth hits into marrow and bone,

there's only one way to stay in the clear,

cross no lines that will bring shame or fear.

Monica Maartens ©

DEEP THROAT - UNSEEN POWERS.......

UNSEEN POWERS WITH VERY DEEP THROATS

Hidden behind 33 layers of societies and clubs are hidden powers.....

TEACH CHILDREN TO STAY ON THE STRAIGHT AND NARROW PATH.....IT IS BY FAR THE EASIER PATH TO TRAVEL. WE ARE ALWAYS IN THE LIGHT AND REFUSE TO BE SWAYED BY DECEIT AND GREY AREAS... WHAT'S RIGHT IS RIGHT, NOT ALMOST RIGHT....AND THIS SAVES US ENORMOUS PAIN, SUFFERING, REGRETS, SORROWS....BECAUSE WHEN OUR LIVES ARE CLEAN AND PURE AND TOTALLY ABOVE BOARD AND THERE IS NOTHING HIDDEN THAT CAN BE USED TO MANIPULATE OR INTIMIDATE US, WE ARE BASICALLY FREE....OUR LIVES ARE AN OPEN BOOK AND ANYONE CAN AT ANYTIME LOOK INTO OUR LIFE AND FIND NOTHING THAT THEY CAN USE AGAINST US.....

We always hear we can't fight the system. As I see it, a system was put into place and worked perfectly well, until it fell into the hands of lawlessness, due to secrets the leading authorities were trying to hide....they didn't play clean and got swallowed by their own system. However, to overcome the system is in fact possible, we need to know how it works. There are hidden societies operating through clubs, groups, businesses, etc.....and once into the system it is like a never ending maze in which we become completely lost. It really is a word game...and based upon honour, honesty and living a pure clean life, which is literally impossible in this world, because the porn and filth is spread across our televisions, magazines, bill boards, we'd have to be deaf, dumb and blind not to even glance at it....it hits us all, and it started with slow gradual conditioning with advertisements... hair shampoos with a naked shoulder, then the back, then the sideview and then nudity.....we became so used to it in small portions we didn't actually notice it....... Now we have soiled our eyes and are accused of it and that opens the door into our home....we have looked at others nudity so now they can look at ours...... Shocking, isn't it....but that is exactly what happens....now when we are accused we need the right words to block the attack and to make us innocent of what we are blamed for, so we may remain free. THIS IS HUMANLY IMPOSSIBLE, BECAUSE WE COULDN'T POSSIBLY KNOW EVERYTHING - THERE IS JUST FAR TOO MUCH HIDDEN FOR US TO KNOW IT ALL...IT WILL TAKE A HUNDRED LIFE TIMES AND THEN STILL PROBABLY MORE. SO WHAT SHALL WE DO ????? TO BE ABLE TO HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS WE NEED, WE NEED SUPER NATURAL HELP FROM A FORCE THAT IS ABOVE ALL THIS AND THE ONLY SUCH FORCE OR POWER THAT I COULD FIND AFTER SEARCHING THROUGH ALL HUMAN CHANNELS....LAWYERS, JUDGES, POLICE, WELFARE, PREACHERS, NEWSPAPERS, YOU NAME IT, I TRIED IT AND NONE......NOT ONE COULD HELP ME UNTIL I REMEMBERED THE NAME JESUS CHRIST. WHEN I SEARCHED FOR JESUS, ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE...... SOMETHING OR SOMEONE WAS VERY DETERMINED TO BLOCK MY WAY, AND THEN I KNEW, WITHOUT ANY DOUBT, THAT JESUS WAS THE PLACE I HAD TO FIND....IF THIS WAS JUST ANOTHER FALSE DOOR, NO ONE WOULD HAVE BOTHERED TRYING TO PREVENT ME FROM FINDING THIS DOOR, WHEN WE ACCEPT THIS DOOR IT OPENS TO A SPIRITUAL CONNECTION TO GOD, THE FORCE THAT SITS ABOVE ALL WORLDLY SYSTEMS AND AUTHOTITIES, AND WE ARE "CONNECTED TO THE SPIRIT OF GOD, CALL IT THE WAVE LENGTH IF YOU WISH". THIS WAVELENGTH LIVES WITHIN US, OPERATES THROUGH US AND KNOWS ALL THINGS IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE AND GIVES US THE RIGHT WORDS TO SPEAK.....IT SPEAKS WITH OUR TONGUE AND WE ESCAPE EACH AND EVERY TRAP, WE BREAK EACH AND EVERY CHAIN THAT KEEPS US CAPTIVE IN THE DARK, WE FIND EACH AND EVERY ANSWER THAT WE NEED AND WE CONQUER EACH AND EVERY OBSTACLE AND TEST THROWN OUR WAY. 

We will probably never know where we got swallowed or by who, BUT WE SURELY CAN RISE ABOVE THE SYSTEM...

WE CAN OVERCOME.....©

Tomorrow we look at a few entry points into deep throat........as we look back on our life will see it very clearly.....

DEEP THROAT.....

TUNNEL OF THE HARLOT

There is so much more than meets the eye,

we think the planets and stars are in the sky,

little do we know what's above is below,

societies and groups that catch us in their flow.

Blissfully ignorant we waltz along,

singing our sad or happy little song,

we find ourselves in places so strange,

not having a clue how we turned the page.

We fall in a rut and really get stuck,

can't find our way out of the muck,

we don't even know where we really are,

where to turn or reach for a star.

It's throat is deep and swallows us all,

when it happens we can't catch the ball,

deeper and deeper into darkness we fall,

until we heed to the Godly call.

Monica Maartens ©

ZODIAC CONTINUES WEAVING

MORALS : CHASTITY & ZODIAC

Some things only give us ONE CHANCE to do it right. These we protect and cherish as our crown jewels. One is our virginity, for both male and female. When we open the door we not only give our body, but our heart, souls and mind as well. We have crossed the line into sexual immorality and become the property of the harlot, we ourselves have given away our moral ticket to a clean, decent ride. The man that truly loves himself will keep himself pure and when he loves a woman will never even dream of asking her any sexual favours or any form of sexual contact before being wedded. The man or woman that says "if you love me, you will go all the way," is a liar and deceiver and will dump you and move on somewhere down the line. This IS NOT A GAME, IT IS OUR LIFE, and when we take this lightly end up on the paths of heartbreak, rejection, depravity and perversions. 

With the young we now enter into the teens where the next four zodiacs join...... Leo, Virgo, Libra and Scorpio.....and also Venus and Mars.

From out of the milky way, the kinder garden and primary school, we step into the awareness stages.

Leo, being fire or spirit, becomes very aware of attention from the opposite sex, impressions, the mirror and self awareness.

Virgo, the virgin, being earth or flesh, becomes aware of the body taking shape 

and together with appearances, looks, etc, all the insecurities they tend to shy away from the attention, pulling in a different direction to the spirit which wants to explore, causing major havoc.... this growing and changing stage causes plenty of confusion and fear with all the strange happenings and parents  should be close to their children explaining all the changes, the why's and where's in a casual loving atmosphere, privately and sincerely, this is a very sensitive time with a lot of shyness and embarrassment and they don't need additional attention. Have a few good, decent medical books explaining the different stages.

Libra, air or mental department, want to balance everything on the scales, the injustices and unfairness in the whole wide world, they have great plans to change and improve on all things. Abide with them - this too shall pass. Very few hang on to these ideals and dreams when romance knocks on the door....the balancing returns to their lives

Emotional Scorpio goes through deep waters of mood changes, become disturbed and easily irritated...this part of us is very private, personal and touchy and is very sensitive even just when someone looks at us.....it should be treated with great respect and dignity, otherwise thoughts of revenge may start developing that may hide there for many, many years. 

Through these years we need to reassure our children about the absolute normality of what is happening to them. They should never compare themselves to others as each child is completely unique and what is theirs is specially theirs and no one else would ever have it. 

Venus and Mars pops onto the scene to start sifting through the youth to isolate the ones they want to bring them profit. They start planting seeds in their minds by using other children in school and away from the homes. Seeds are planted in their minds, they are complimented, lifted up, treated like little gods and goddesses, conditioning their minds, basically channeling their thoughts into vanity, self importance, pride, arrogance, mainly concentrating on their outer appearance....mainly the ones with the "looks", they are all being groomed to becomes objects and tools of seduction to waylay girls and men, especially powerful men, to get a hold on them.

PARENTS AND CHILDREN SHOULD BE VERY, VERY AWARE OF THIS, ALL THE TRAPPINGS AND PRETTY DISGUISES FOR PLAIN SIMPLE PROSTITUTION... SOMETIMES THEY SELL THEMSELVES FOR MONEY, SOMETIMES FOR SEX OR DRUGS, SOMETIMES FOR FAME AND FORTUNE....BUT ALWAYS THEY SELL THEMSELVES AND GO INTO THE BONDAGE OF SLAVERY POLLUTING THE EARTH WITH THEIR IMMORALITY AND THE COST IS VERY, VERY HIGH.... NORMALLY THEY HAVE TO SELL OUT THEIR OWN FAMILIES.....THE PRICE IS JUST TOO HIGH.....AFTER SELLING OUT THE FAMILY, YOU STILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH YOURSELF....I DON'T KNOW HOW THAT IS POSSIBLE........ ©

ZODIAC JOINS TEENAGE EMOTIONS

TEENAGE WHIMS

Growing pains with pimples and all,

beauty and glamour make its call,

Leo struts about with its pride,

bringing arrogance along for the ride.

Little Virgo is gentle and mild,

wanting to hold on to the child,

timid and shy stays out of sight,

afraid to enter into the light.

Libra brings the scales of justice,

wanting to solve all the worlds nonsense,

argue about the gross unfairness,

lay down at night with hearts of sadness.

The deep dark waters of Scorpio move,

in and out of every grove,

personal and private it likes to be,

move around where no one can see.

All of this shall pass on by,

when we bring it together to fly,

we weave it all into one in our being,

so with clarity our eyes will be seeing.

Monica Maartens ©

SICK AND TIRED OF FEAR....

MORALS : COURAGE AND VALOUR

Where does courage come from ? It is a basic self assurance that we can achieve or do something, arising from being balanced. As children we are afraid of many things because the world is a big and scary place. We have a relationship with our parents and when we become afraid run to them for protection. As we wean away from them and start venturing on our own, there will be many things we won't try due to fear. Fear is basically ignorance....as we learn about what we fear and dissect it, it becomes manageable. Often we need guidance and direction and that is why it is so important to develop all sides of a child. We need a spiritual connection throughout life for the unseen realm in life. Even our parents can't protect us here - so it is wise to introduce a child to their divine inheritance and teach them how to have fellowship with God. Our soul is the divine residence and won't allow any other to occupy this space. When our souls are neglected we always live in a vacuum of insecurity, which we try to hide with arrogance, a couldn't care attitude, or rudeness to keep people at arms length so they won't notice our insecurity and fear. We have a wariness of the unknown, fear and are hesitant to make decisions , we ride the see saw and see where it ends. When we are spiritually anchored we KNOW WE HAVE BACKUP which gives us confidence in life. There is none that can successfully negotiate life alone and who can we trust that has our best interests at heart ? God, only God ! That takes care of the spiritual side. When children show fear we should take that fear and show them how to open it up and break it down into smaller pieces - once we know what something is, why it is there, what it does, the reason and purpose for its existence, this knowledge will dispel the fear. But a child needs to learn how to dissect the fear themselves so they have that knowledge to carry with them. Explain strange noises, especially at night....when a branch scratches on a window or roof - it is very scary laying alone in bed, all is quiet and pitch dark except for this noise, not knowing what it is. When unknown it is amplified and loud, once we know what it is and see it in daylight, it becomes a background noise, because the fear that amplified it is gone. Same with insects and animals, read their habits and show the child pictured - libraries are free and there are many books to enlighten a child's mind. Fear of people is disastrous, because it causes us to bow to authoritive voices and attitudes. We need to teach a child to stand by the truth because then they never need to fear anyone. Also, NOT TO KEEP SILENT.....SILENCE IS NOT GOLDEN ...IT IS A BONDAGE TRAP ....WHEN WE CAN BE KEPT SILENT WE BECOME EXTREMELY VULNERABLE. When intimidated by older and stronger children a child should not suffer in silence, but make a massive noise, otherwise they become a victim for a very long time....possibly even their entire schooling. It is not the parents that must fight the battle for the child because that also adds fuel to the fire, but for the child to stand solidly against intimidation. Others will then be wary of them and leave them be.....bully's are generally cowards and insecure that is why they need to use aggression and bullying because they can't hold their own. When a child has fellowship with God, they have the Spirit inside them 24/7 under all circumstances which fighgts the battles for the child through the child's mouth with the right words for each occasion without it ending in fights and violence. THIS IS SO MASSIVELY IMPORTANT TO EQUIP OUR CHILDREN WITH THE RIGHT TOOLSFOR LIFE. WE CANNOT POSSIBLY BE WITH THEM 24/7. BUT THE SPIRIT OF GOD CAN....and from the Spirit comes our love, understanding, wisdom, values and all things pertaining to life.....give the children this gift....it is the gift of life.... ©

DISSECT THE FEARS. ...

NO FEAR

Show me the inside and outside of fears,

so I never need to run home with tears,

teach me how to dismantle the cold,

so I can stand very strong and bold.

Lead me onto the paths of light,

to enable me to break up a fight,

walk around in the dark of night,

strongly connected to deep insight.

Teach me how to protect the weak,

stand my ground and turn the other cheek,

show no fear in the face of danger,

know how to dampen another's anger.

I don't want to slink away from rage,

I want to know how to turn the page,

stand straight and tall at the threats of my peers,

learn the ways of the wise and seers.

Monica Maartens ©

CONDITIONED AND BRAIN WASHED

FEEL OF LOVE - TRUE BALANCE

More important than any talents or abilities, is the presence of love in the heart of a child. It makes us open and pliable and very easy to get along with. It also makes teaching and learning so much easier because everyone is happy and relaxed and there is no tension and stress blocking our progress. 

The life we live today is completely off balance. Respect is shown to money and material values at the cost of love and happiness. The only people who receive recognition are the ones who flash their money around, and we all become trapped in this rut simply because we allow ourselves to be held hostage by it. In the mad rush of industrialization and materialism we have completely lost balance with who we really are. If we were to place true values as a measuring line, we would all fail miserably.......and yet, that is how we retain our souls. Money cannot buy us a new soul, when we sell our morals and virtues for dead, temporary material riches. We end in the gutters of moral depravity, taking part in greed and deceit leading us into the darkness of many regrets and sorrows as entire families and nations are consumed by wickedness and evil. Because we have involved ourselves in wrongdoing we have no protection from the darkness. We start off on this journey by making excuses for the little wrongs and before we know it we are walking on the pathways of wickedness. It is far more important to grow our morals and virtues and never to bow to trickery and deceit which will enslave us. The greatest success on earth is finding and keeping love and happiness. A child that is loved is far more balanced than a child that is spoilt with material gifts and money. A balanced child will not harm creation or others in their life ahead. Honesty is more important than fine gold, truth more important than money. Virtues are what builds our characters and stays with us, the material things come and go, it's just for use.....we don't place dead things above the living things, or we will surely be taken captive by them and lose our freedom.......to live a life of captivity and slavery, is not a life at all......©

SHOW ME - GUIDE ME

TEACH ME

Please teach me the ways of honesty to do,

show me the paths of truth to pursue,

teach me how to hold on to my purity,

follow the footsteps of Godly surety.

Teach me the ways to retain my freedom,

fill my space in this Godly kingdom,

never to bow to the darkness of night,

always walk in the passages of light.

Teach me how to make my love grow,

keep it alive and allow it to flow,

show me how to live a happy life,

the tools I need to overcome all strife.

Teach me the values and treasures that last,

lead me into the virtues of past,

the days when honour and respect stood high,

show me how to use my wings to fly.

Teach me

Show me

Lead me

Guide me

Monica Maartens ©

ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

GIVING LOVE AND ATTENTION

The right kind of attitude comes from corrective teaching when we share our time instead of preaching. Most of what a child needs when they are small and young, is the acknowledgement from family and fun.

When we actively partake in playing their games, we can teach them all the proper names. We see what they do and guide their eye. They learn far quicker when they receive attention, always guiding them into the right direction. Time is a very precious gift to bestow upon a child, it makes them part of the family, comforts them, makes them feel acknowledged and important. Soon enough they will go on their own. When we use attention and the discipline of love, they never learn to push and shove. When we leave them to their own devices, they get into all sorts of trouble that entices. We then use punishment as a means of control, which breaks their enthusiasm and spirit and the bond we have with them, instead of companionship and fellowship which builds them, and then fear is awoken inside their soul. They try to hide and become distant, silent and wary, opening the door to many troubles and misunderstandings because they no longer feel safe to open up to us. They no longer trust to come close to us for fear of reprimands and punishment. It brings into play a violent nature as they see beatings and shouting is the way in which to handle differences and misunderstandings. Later in life they start bullying others to rid themselves of the anger and frustrations they feel. When using love we correct as we go along, showing different ways and methods to deal with situations that will never cause them to stray. Our children should never fear to come to the parents, it's meant to be the place where they run. FROM THEIR FEARS. Parents are there to dry the tears and show them the truth behind all their fears. Teach them to have courage to face the dark without fear, give them the truth to ignite the spark that brings light into all situations. 

FEAR IS A TERRIBLE HABIT TO GAIN, it keeps us from so many adventures and experiences which benefit our growth and bring enormous enjoyment into our lives. Take fear and break it down into little pieces and together with the children analyse it and see why we fear, so they know how to deal with fear..... ©

IT FLOWS THROUGH US

FLOWING THROUGH

The heart I was given is still the same,

the soul I carry still bears the same name,

the brain is still the original make,

nothing has changed, nothing is fake.

Along come emotions, on our doors they knock,

love and hate take turns around the clock,

they take a tour right throughout heart,

breaking and healing and pulling apart.

Love starts flowing from the center of our soul,

cementing the cracks and filling the hole,

soon it remembers its proper place,

recovers sufficient to complete the race.

Knowledge will flow through our brain every day,

some of it will even lead us astray,

we select what is useful to make us grow,

it still doesn't change the way we flow.

Monica Maartens ©

26/08/2017

REACHING FOR OUR DREAMS

ATTITUDE

A positive attitude is more than half the battle won. When we instill in a child the excitement of exploring all things in depth, it opens doors to easy learning. When our lessons and journeys are made exciting and interesting we are eager to learn even more because it has become an adventure, a detective story, intriguing experiment in life. There are two sides to a coin, two ways of looking at life....sit and watch life go by, or we can be the life that goes by.....there are two forces at play...light and darkness, can and can't, will and won't. When this positive side of us is awoken as a child we tend to negotiate life far better and see obstacles and hinderences as adventures to explore and unravel. Needless to say we are always busy living life, always on the go, when one thing crashes, we simply bounce to the next. We have had the privilege to learn from our parents that we don't need the right tools to get the thing done....we compromise.....we make do with that which is at hand....modify and reshape what we have until it fits on the job we need it for.....and the amazing thing is these children rarely, if ever, complain or cry about injustices, or unfairness, or lack of opportunity or anything else. They don't have the time, every minute is a minute they can use to discover new exciting things....and they always enjoy the journey. It is not about getting from A to Z......it is all about what lays between A and Z....these are the doers, the makers of life, the winners, they may never have big bank accounts because they spend their money on their experiences, but they are so incredibly wealthy with knowledge, wisdom, experience and beautiful memories, their lives are a million books in one all flowing in and out of the next one. A positive attitude and outlook on life is one of the greatest gifts our parents can give us, like a cat, we always land on our feet. Regardless how many hardships come our way, we always manage to pop up from the darkness back into the light......a great gift indeed.... ©

STILL THE SAME

WHO I AM

The paths that I travel are not who I am,

it's merely a test to see if I can

I'm always okay whether high or low,

the detours are all just part of the show.

I take what I need from that which is there,

keep my nose clean, always try to be fair,

it's all a game of selection and choice,

without ever having to raise my voice.

I remain who I am just adding some flavour,

each new journey brings more to savour,

my bones get broken and heart becomes shattered, 

dust myself off pretending none of it mattered.

All the time we learn and grow,

hold on to the good and let the bad go,

at the end of the day I'm still the same,

make a change and play a new game.

Monica Maartens ©

WELCOME TO THE WINNERS CIRCLE

WELCOME TO ALL READERS FROM  AUSTRALIA, BELGIUM, CANADA, GERMANY, INDIA, IRAQ, IRELAND, PAKISTAN, SAUDI ARABIA, SOUTH AFRICA, TAIWAN, UNITED ARAB EMIRATES, UNITED KINGDOM OF BRITAIN AND THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA.

THANK YOU ALL FOR READING MY MESSAGES, MAY GOD RICHLY BLESS YOU ALL.........

SEEK WHAT WE ALREADY HAVE

MORALS - FAIRNESS continue....

Not all have the same abilities and talents, therefore we all vary in performance. We don't expect mental results from a physical, mechanical or creative mind. We are all designed to fit and grow into our own abilities and when we do what we are designed to do, we do well and that brings tremendous happiness and contentment. We don't force a square into a circle and expect results - it's grossly unfair. Each child should develop according to their talents and when we succeed in what we do, we don't envy others feeling all kinds of "unfair" feelings because we are happy. It is the disgruntled person that always finds "unfairness" everywhere. There is such frustration and unhappiness in our world because most of us are stuck in jobs we hate. Everything in our world is in mass......mass education.....mass industry.....mass production.....etc, and when we have to earn a daily wage in a job we hate, there is no joy in our life and we do the job with no pride or care because we just want the pay check at the end of the week or month, and we continuously find "unfairness" because we are unhappy and seek reasons to blame. Ideally there should be individual education and development according to our natural abilities and talents, which all of us have and when guided from young to develop that which we already have and comes naturally, it is easy to learn because we have an interest in it, a natural curiosity and ability. It is enjoyable and therefore we excel bringing great joy, satisfaction and happiness. We improve on our own abilities never comparing ourselves to others. This brings enormous fairness into the playing field. We need to be taught from young that LIFE IS NOT A COMPETITION OR COMPARISON, IT IS AN INDIVIDUAL CHALLENGE BETWEEN US AND OUR TALENTS - we only see if we can improve on our previous results. When competing against others a lot of cheating and unfairness appears. We are to seek and find our own special talents, abilities and qualities and develop them, prune them, shape them until we succeed with them.....there is no unfairness here......only the joy of doing what we love anyway......©

FILL MY OWN SPACE - LET ME. BE ME.........

ALLOW ME

Allow me to grow in the way I must,

a square cannot fit into a circles crust,

I have special talents hidden inside,

just need to find out where they hide.

I will touch and play with all things in sight,

will venture into the darkness and light,

open and close all kinds of doors,

often crumble and fall on all fours.

I ask very nicely be patient with me,

I still have to find my feet, you see,

I wish to be happy in what I do,

so joy will flow on the paths I pursue.

Please be fair and allow me my space,

to grow and learn at my own pace,

I do not want to follow in your steps,

I need to fill my own to do best.

Monica Maartens ©

DON'T WALK OVER ME ........

MORALS - JUSTICE AND FAIRNESS

Our next big step is to learn fairness and justice the right way, so we never walk over others and they never walk over us. We notice in life some people shine out from the rest without a privileged back- ground. When we investigate deeper, we notice they are always busy - always working at improving themselves - always setting goals and actually doing something active to reach their goals. The greatest amount of poverty comes from poverty of the mind and soul. Lack of will and motivation to rise out of the squalor because it involves constant work. A person does not need to be rich financially to be wealthy. Life is not about material possessions but about emotional satisfaction and success. The person that has succeeded in this life is the one that has discovered who he is and has made himself complete as a human being.......meaning he is still intact at the end of the journey having developed his soul, heart, spirit and mind to full capacity. This does not cost any money......because.....it is all about values and virtues which cannot be bought or sold. Life is like a plant that needs to be tended and watered daily and each moral and virtue we develop needs the same. The way we water it, is to use it every day. What is fair ? On the emotional plane all things come likewise to the rich and the poor....our living environment has absolutely nothing to do with good manners, kindness, fairness or justice. For the person THAT WANTS TO WORK, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE WORK......FOR THE LAZY PERSON THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A LION IN THE STREET AND HE CAN'T GO OUT..... STRANGE, ISN'T IT......THE MAN THAT WILLS AND WANTS NEVER SEES THE LION, BECAUSE IN FACT IT'S NOT THERE. SO WOULD IT BE FAIR FOR ONE TO WORK AND THE OTHER TO COLLECT BY BEING LAZY ???? I THINK NOT !!! It is said that all things come to all people, but most of us don't even see the opportunities BECAUSE WE DON'T LOOK AT WHAT WE DO HAVE AND UTLILIZE IT TO MAKE SOMETHING OUT OF IT. We would rather look at what others have and complain about our shortcomings.  To teach a child how to open their eyes to opportunities we start with simple little things, like....something breaks in the house, so we see if we can use it for something else, instead of just throwing it away......not because of the value in money, BUT BECAUSE OF THE VALUE IN THE LESSON....WASTE NOT, WANT NOT. When we need to be fair with others, we treat them like we would like them to treat us, we show consideration, kindness, compassion, understanding without allowing them to trample upon us. We give them the same amount of space, the same ingredients or tools, the same amount of time, the same opportunity, then we are equal. If they then waste it, or sell their tools for drugs, etc, and we succeed and they don't, they must not shout "unfair"...... and then come and leech off another.....they had exactly what we had, but they threw it away and we did not....so we need to explain this as we teach our children not to allow their kindness to be exploited by crafty, deceitful sluggards. True fairness is giving everybody the opportunity to become self sufficient so they don't need to beg from others and degrade themselves. Some will actually starve rather than make an effort and that is very sad, maybe they just need a bit of motivation, become part of something important, some mission that is bigger than their sluggishness. It is a very important lesson to learn young in life how unfair it is for us NOT TO BRING OUR SIDE IN LIFE, WITH EVERYTHING... work, relationships, helping with chores, brining our side. When we learn this and how to utilize and adapt objects and circumstances we will always be able to make it under any and all circumstances, a very, very valuable lesson that becomes useful rather often.  ©

BLACK. OR. WHITE

RIGHT OR WRONG

What is right and what is wrong,

what will break us or make us strong,

what is black and what is white,

where in the grey will we block the fight?

Every journey has it's own kind of wisdom,

every pathway has traps and freedom,

how shall we live to remain in the clear,

what shall we do to protect those who are dear ?

We travel the paths that are in the light,

many detours will take us through the night,

not to be trapped and held against our will,

is the secret with which our heart to fill.

We always spread fairness to all around,

weigh on the scales the things that abound,

take into account all factors involved,

with justice and equality all problems are solved. ©

Monica Maartens ©

ORIGIN OF LIES AND DECEIT.......

MORALS - TRUTH AND RESPONSIBILITY.......

After the foundation of purity and the cement of love that weaves all together comes TRUTH, which is the building blocks we build with, walking hand in hand with responsibility. When a life is built on purity, using truth as bricks and cementing it with love ......there is no force that can destroy it. But.....it is not possible to do it single handedly, there are too many deceitful traps hidden and camouflaged as truth for us to be able to discern the difference as it is not visible to the human eye, we can only discern it through spiritual eyes because we need to see beyond the visible. When we make mistakes, which we all do, make wrong decisions, which we all do, overlook important details, which we all do, say and do unsavoury things, which we all do, it is VITAL TO OWN UP TO IT AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE FALL OUT, OTHERWISE IT BECOMES AN UNPAID DEBT AND WILL TAKE US INTO BONDAGE SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE. We should never have to fear owning up due to punishment. Rather pay what is due and finalize the situation, make it complete so that it is over and done. I do NOT agree with this method of teaching....using punishment. I believe in the discipline of love, where we are shown our error, why it is an error and what to do to fix it and make it right....to repair what's broken or to replace it, to return what's taken or replace it and to apologize when we speak out of turn and learn to be more considerate. When children drop something and it breaks and we scream and shout at them, they become scared and start hiding things away and pretending they know nothing.......and..... what is breeding here ?????? Deceit enters, lies enter to hide the fear of being shouted at or punished.....see the dangers...... Things that children can break should be out of their reach in the first place, but....if and when it does happen, please remember this is a little child, flesh and blood with a heart and feelings, what us broken is a dead object.......never love your property and ornaments more than than your children, it will backfire on you in a very bad way. We gather the broken pieces and show them how to glue it back together and make it whole again, otherwise we show them how we replace it, explaining that it costs money that has to be worked for, as they will learn later in life. BUT....PLEASE DON'T LAY A TON OF GUILT ONTO A CHILD BECAUSE OF ACCIDENTS, MISTAKES, WRONG MOVES, ETC.....SHOW THEM WHERE THEY WENT WRONG AND HOW TO MAKE RIGHT ON A WRONG. We must always show how to solve situations without aggression and violence. When we learn this early in life, we will be able to conquer any trouble or problem that arises because we have seen and learnt that there is always a way. When we DON'T learn this we will continue to err and it gets bigger each time until we land in the hands of the law and prison. We MUST learn accountability and responsibility as all actions and words have reactions and consequences. We should never be afraid to come forward and say " I broke this, please show me how to fix it, I said something wrong, how do I make amends, I made a mistake or wrong decision and it has blown up my face, what do I need to do to make this right"!! It is when we shy away from accountability that our deeds and words become prisons of captivity. When we learn responsibility we fix things before we move on so there are no loose strings that can become nooses around our necks later in our lives. WE SHOULD NEVER HAVE THIS FEAR CAUSING US TO DECEIVE, HIDE AWAY, LIE OR CHEAT. IT LEAVES US FEELING GUILTY, NERVOUS, DODGY AND WE START KEEPIN SECRETS AND SECRETS ARE PERFECT WEAPONS TO HOLD US IN BONDAGE...AT RANSOM.. DO THIS FOR ME AND I WILL NOT TELL ON YOU......RECOGNISE IT ??? I'M SURE YOU DO. IT ALWAYS COMES TO COLLECT US. This starts with overly strict and impatient parents. Teach children to always own up and be completely open so they will always be able to stand their ground...the never have to look down or lower themselves to the level of threats, because they have nothing to hide and therefore nothing to fear. Even through mistakes....teach them how to fix the mistakes or solve the problem. Even if there is punishment due, rather do the punishment than to forever be a slave to someone else because of dishonesty.....SPEAK THE TRUTH, THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH, SO HELP ME GOD......AND WALK AWAY FROM ANY AND ALL THREATS. 

THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT QUALITIES TO DEVELOP WITHIN A CHILD.....TO NOT EVER FEAR DUE TO LACK OF TRUTH.....THESE LESSONS WILL KEEP US STANDING BUILDING OUR CONFIDENCE BECAUSE WE WILL KNIW THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY, AN ANSWER, A METHOD TO USE SO WE MAY REMAIN FREE FROM BEING BLACKMAILED AND THREATENED.....

THIS IS SO INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT BECAUSE THERE ARE MANY LAZY WOLVES IN THE WORLD THAT NEED OTHERS TO DO THEIR DIRTY WORK... DON'T LET YOUR CHILD BECOME ONE OF THEIR PAWNS...........©

Tomorrow we look at fairness and justice the cornerstones of our life's foundations.......

FEARLESS TRAVELS

NO FEAR

We grow and learn about life's ways,

falling and rising through the passing days,

mistakes we will make, it's part of the trip,

we use it as training to get a grip.

As we venture we should never fear,

to acknowledge the mistakes as they appear,

it's through the fixing that we learn the most,

otherwise later we will pay the cost.

We should be taught to go the right way,

then troubles and trials won't make us stray,

when we can acknowledge the wrongs we do,

we're given the time the right way to pursue.

We should never be afraid to ask for guidance,

or think it beneath us to need reliance,

when we leave a trail of destruction behind,

it will follow our tracks and catch us off side. ©

Monica Maartens ©

WHY, WHY, WHY

MORALS....CONFORMITY TO MORALS AND WHY......
Before we continue : how do we make people, especially children conform to morals and virtues.....what is the trick - the magic touch.....IT COMES FROM THE HEART AND SPIRIT - THE WANT AND THE WILL.....THE HEART DESIRES AND THE SPIRIT WILLS THE MIND TO USE THE KNOWLEDGE IN THE RIGHT WAY AND THE SOUL GUIDES THE ENTIRE OPERATION....
1) CONNECT THE SOUL TO CORRECT GUIDANCE.... the human soul has only one master and when that master is not there it shuts down. That's when we get that hole in the soul feeling, that deep empty longing that nothing can fill. It will not allow anything but Godliness to reside within it. Our lives become shallow and materialistic and oir love starts running dry. We become unhappy and discontented with life and then try to fill the emptiness with material possessions and money, which doesn't work - we remain empty inside with a deep mysterious something that we cannot find. The moment we open our soul to Gods guidance our happiness and joy overflows. We find purpose and reason for life and a worthy mission to follow and complete. WE BELONG....WE FEEL AT HOME....WE FEEL LOVED.....WE FEEL IMPORTANT AND WORTHY BECAUSE WE ARE PART OF SOMETHING IMPORTANT. At birth we place our children's heart s, souls, spirits and minds into Gods hand so they have a companion and partner throughout life. They will always know where to go and what to do and there lives will become successful.
2) BUILD LOVE IN THE HEART...
When the soul is connected, Gods love will flow like a river through the heart... it can never run dry. However, we still have to teach love through our actions and how to be gentle, considerate and kind to those around us. Love is like a little plant, it needs care, nurturing and watering to survive. That comes from using it daily. Many things happen in life, we need to look past and love regardless and learn the ability to forgive. Forgiveness keeps us free from the bondage of anger and revenge. It is very important to look deeper than actions and words that may hurt us, to the reason behind it so we may gain understanding which makes forgiveness possible.
3) PLACE KNOWLEDGE IN THE BRAIN... at the minds disposal. When we teach knowledge we find the right type that brings wholeness and inspiration into our lives. There is an awful lot of useless knowledge floating around - select only the best for growth and the gauge we use is love.....whatever will not and does not cause harm to creation or our fellow humans is safe to learn and store. Seek for the truth - the spirit will guide us and use only truth to build a child's life. When we doubt or don't know the answers, we search for it together si children know how and where to seek and find what they need in life. Teach useable knowledge.... things that we need in life.....how to solve problems, how to seek answers, how to have relationships within and outside the home, how to fix mistakes and made amends or repairs, how to be responsible and accountable to our words and actions.....these are all things we use throughout our entire life and it never goes out of fashion or ages.
4) GUIDE THE SPIRIT TO WILL GOOD..... Spirits are fearless and often unruly, so we need to guide, not bend and break, but guide the will/spirit to seek for what is good and right, even in wrong situations. A spirit cannot be chained and WILL explore all things...... light and dark - expect it. But also teach it that when it gets dark to remember the light, where it is, how to use it, because all the answers are in the light. Darkness holds fear, confusion, misunderstandings and captivity. The light always sets free. So even when doors of darkness open their seductive mouths with all the beautiful, glorious enticements, WHICH WILL HAPPEN, trian them to take the torch of light with them at all times to shine in the darkness so they can find their way out. When we do fall into darkness there is normally shame and embarrassment involved so we don't share it with anyone and try to keep it secret and that is a terrible trap....secrets which lead to blackmail, extortion, fear and misery. That is why it is so important fir children to know when and how to pull out the light and scare the darkness away.....©

Tomorrow, the next virtue....as purity, responsibility is massively important for us to learn to stand on our own feet and also stand against pressure without buckling......

DON'T ROCK THE BOAT - CALM THE STORM

GETTING IT TOGETHER

Our souls are the portals to Godly guidance,

the place of safety for our reliance,

the deep connection between creator and creation,

the passage through which comes our elation.

Hearts feed on love and compassion,

acting out in its own special fashion,

it needs tenderness and always to belong,

filled with joy, laughter and happy song.

Words of knowledge enter into the brain,

it's used by the mind to reach for our gain,

these become thoughts on which to ponder,

turning into actions with greatness and wonder.

Our spirits always like to fly free,

moving us to where we need to be,

they need to have an aim and mission,

or we will become lost in a world of confusion. ©

CRYSTAL PURITY

MORALS - PURITY.....

As this is the first moral that is destroyed to open the door to the rest of us, let us build it strong enough not to be stolen from us. We need to understand how our inner emotion operate and how outer influences have an impact on our growth and reactions. Most young boys lose their visible purity when sneakily shown porn, without them knowing what is there, it is always hidden in a comic book or some other cover and they are then lured closer by enticement, and only realize it is porn once they see it. And that's it......purity destroyed because it is burnt into their brain....they can never remove it again. The girls loose their purity when these, now soiled, boys mock and joke about their nudity, telling them they have seen what they look like and make jokes and rude remarks, mainly to cover their own shame and embarrassment. It strips us of our purity and decency. Yet....... It actually starts far younger...... straight after birth when we land in strange hands with strangers eyes upon our nakedness. We may not be consciously aware of it, but it is being recorded and brings flashbacks throughout our lives that we do not understand. The amount of damage done will depend on what happened to us in the nurses hands and what words were spoken, directly to us or about us. There after the bathing and nappy changes. This should always be done in private EVEN WHEN "FRIENDS" ARE THERE - IT IS THE BABIES BIRTHRIGHT TO HAVE THEIR NUDITY RESPECTED AND HONOURED. So....explain to the "friend" that in a few years your child must be taught not to allow strangers to look or touch.......for obvious reasons and it starts with the nappy changes and bathing otherwise the think you are lying and talking nonsense and it confuses them. Their minds have recorded all the "strangers" - your "friends", not theirs.... staring and gazing at their nakedness during nappy changes, and please believe me they are very, very aware of this, so what's changed now ????? Protect their purity at all costs. If the " friend" cannot or will not understand this vitally important fact, they are not you friend anyway, get another friend. We can't show show one thing today and then in a few year throw it all upside down with the total opposite !!!! No one has anything to do with you or your families nudity and you have nothing to do with theirs. Make sure the creche and school you send your children to respect these laws of purity and dignity, otherwise teach your child to dress and undress under a towel or nightgown as covering and to avert their eyes from others nakedness.....look at the floor or ceiling or out the window or get busy with fluff on your clothes or a book, so you can still have a conversation without looking at the person. KEEP YOUR EYES PURE, because the next step after being conditioned to look upon others nudity is porn, which rots all humans morals and blinds us spiritually to the truth in life... STAY CLEAR FROM IT..  REMAIN PURE.. EVEN IF YOU ARE MOCKED...STAY PURE. When the door of purity is ripped away, it opens an entrance for darkness to come and stay. Slowly  but surely we are conditioned to filth leading to the valleys of perversion, degradation and dirt. With it comes many sorrows and ills, as we become mere objects if seductions spills. Walks hand in hand with heartache and pain never bringing us any worth gain. Purity is the very foundation of life and from it develop all virtues, morals and values. On it we build with truth and love and we will find joy and success. It leads to all goodness and honour in life. When we lose it our foundation cracks and it becomes mixed with darkness, evil, pain, anger which all lead to wickedness....so here is the origin of wickedness....the loss of our purity........STAY PURE.....©

Tomorrow we continue......

MIRACLE OF BIRTH

CRYSTAL PURITY

Like a crystal shining bright and pure,

without a flaw or crack for sure,

a new life enters onto the earth,

the absolute miracle of a babies birth.

This little being has to make it through life,

learn all the ways past the traps that entice,

hold onto their purity until the end,

not open this door that will cause them to bend. 

Once purity is stolen there's an entry point,

where darkness enters to rip our lives out of joint,

it starts eating away at the love in our heart,

causing pain and anger that pulls us apart.

Lives become soiled all tattered and torn,

as we search for the reasons why we were born,

our days become filled with darkness and fears,

as we end in the gutters of heartbreak and tears. ©

Monica Maartens. ©

WINNERS IN LIFE

 

HOW ETHICS AFFECT OUR LIVES

These ethics and principles are the guide to a wholesome life, free from troubles and unnecessary strife. It shapes and forms our way of thinking, building our characters to prevent us from sinking. Unless we lay a solid foundation from very young, explaining the reasons behind it, the major one being to remain free from being held ransom by mistakes and wrong decisions we make on the way, which will be many. Mistakes should never turn into traps, but become a work in progress as we learn from them. We never hide them or keep secrets, that is a sure way to be caught and held at ransom, especially if we want nobody to know about it.....it will be held over our heads like a sword on a continuous basis. We investigate it, analyse it and make amends and repair where we can before we move on with life. It doesn't help telling children not to do things without giving reasons and examples to why, or their curiosity will take them there and then they can't find a way out. Everything in life has a purpose and reason, to teach us to explore all situations and not take things at face value. This we need to learn from very young - the ability to solve problems as they arise. All fear is based on ignorance and once we obtain the knowledge and insight into what we are afraid of, there is no more fear. A mountain is only a mountain until we start climbing it - then it becomes steps to a final destination. This is what we need to learn. With a solid moral grounding we will have the strength and ability to overcome because this keeps us in the light where all things become visible. Virtues and values are everlasting and travel with us throughout life and thereafter. It never ages or goes out of fashion, it is the very core of humanness. The darkness breaks down our morals and purity first and then slowly but surely eats away all our humanness until we are merely puppets on soos me one else's chain. Strong morals build strong people that remain free from bondage because we have the self confidence to stand against the forces of darkness without buckling under the pressure.  This is probably the greatest fight we will have in life - to remain free from bondage if any kind. Teach the children strong morals and virtues to stand against the temptations in life that soil, degrade and destroy our hearts, souls and minds and explain how this happens so they have a clear understanding of the background and where it leads. We take one at a time and firmly establish it a child's life, then move onto the next, using examples where we can.©

From tomorrow we'll work on each individually and see how we can do this.......

BEAT THE DARKNESS

FROM STRENGTH TO STRENGTH

For us to grow from strength to strength,

truth is stretched to its utmost length,

we build our lives with truth and clarity,

using the full might of glorious divinity.

We open our minds to Godly instruction,

keeping us safe from worldly destruction,

there is no man that knows it all,

we need a guide that does not fall.

On worldly paths the traps abound,

innocent and naive we go to ground,

we all need salvation from darkness jaws,

as it seeps into our lives with talons and claws.

We cannot travel this journey alone,

it rips us apart to skin and bone,

we need protection from a mightier force,

than the powers of darkness that run its course.

There is but one who has overcome,

the worldly system that kills for fun,

it is the everlasting Son,

that gives us the light in which to run. ©

Monica Maartens.

THE FREE MAN AND WOMAN....

OUR MORAL VALUES AND ETHICS

Besides the laws of a country which is controlled by the courts, there are natural laws which are controlled by light and darkness. These are the laws which balance our emotions, our mental comprehension and the outcome of our lives. Moral values and virtues are what gives us our humanness, these are mostly unwritten laws  which uplift us or drag us into the darkness of confusion, fear, depression and helplessness. We have the natural virtues, also called the cardinal virtues, which is justice - fairness, equality, etc ; prudence - discretion, privacy, etc ; temperance - moderation and calmness under stress, self restraint, etc  and fortitude - strength of mind and endurance under hardship and testing. We also have moral excellence, righteousness, responsibility, probity - integrity, uprightness, honesty, goodness ; conformity to morals, obedience to the laws of life and coexistence with all of creation, not only just people ; chastity - purity, decency, modesty ; efficacy - force and power, strength, courage and valour ; sanctity - saintliness and godliness, safe from trespass and temptation...cannot be bought or sold. We have dignity, respect, loyalty, trustworthiness, dependancy reliability and many more. All this has far more to do with the inner man than the flesh. It costs not a dime, these things are not for sale, therefore no can say they we too poor to obtain virtues and values. Certainly some of it we learn by example, some we learn through the way we are treated, some are mental lessons that we will ourselves to obey, we train, we practise it, we use it. Much of it we gather from simply recording within our brains that which is happening around us. Except for sexual morality which affects the body, the rest is mainly an inner process of attitude.....virtues are what balance and bend our wills to do what is proper and right. When we live within the value system and ethics of what us good and right we remain on good footing with most people, as we do not cause harm to others which can boomerang back onto us, therefore keeping peace and serenity within our lives.....these homes are blessed with joy and happiness. We say we love and yet we cheat....what type of love is that ??? ©

Tomorrow we see how it affects our spirit, soul, heart and mind.....