GROWING PAINS FOR ALL

FIRST MONTHS OF A BABY'S LIFE

So many babies are born and placed directly into a cot and pram to experience their very first encounter with loneliness and fear. The noises of life are now very loud and very clear and no longer muffled by the liquid in the womb, so babies ears are very sensitive and there is no comfort as they lay all alone in a cold dead cot.....all that wonderful warmth and comfort is suddenly just completely gone.....how horrifying. They don't know where the sounds comes from or what it is and there is no warmth or heartbeat or comfort to !take them feel okay. What happens now ???? THE FIRST FEAR IS NOW BEING WATERED TO GROW FURTHER....FIRST THE SEPERATION FROM THE MOTHER BY THE NURSE AND NOW THIS....THIS SEED OF FEAR IS NOW STARTING TO ROOT.

When the baby is attached to the mother or father they can explain the noises to the baby as they happen because the babies brain is already a fully developed brain and will absord and record the noise and the explanation and the baby will be at ease without any fear. Feeling the body warmth and hearing the heartbeat reassures the baby that all is hunky dory and there is nothing to fear. We need to place ourselves in the baby's shoes and think from a position of being totally helpless and reliant. When a baby cries in a cot, they may not be wet or hungry...... BUT SCARED AND LONELY.....and once again they cry out and there is no man.....there is no help....again and again, and the insecurity makes roots, the feelings of rejection make roots, the loneliness make roots and each time they need to wait for someone to come it waters these roots and the trees start growing and continue to grow and bother us throughout our lives.

WOW MAN, WOMAN.    THEY'VE JUST COME OUT OF A WARM, SAFE, COSY WOMB.....................

HAVE A HEART WILL YOU.......THINK......THINK....

THINK........

BY THE TIME YOU GET THERE THE NOISE IS GONE, THE SHADOW HAS MOVED AND THIS IS RECORDED IN THE BABY'S BRAIN AND NO ONE WAS THERE TO EXPLAIN IT......BUT IT IS RECORDED....... AND ANOTHER SEED MAKES ROOTS......FEARS AND PHOBIAS.....WHEN THAT NOISE APPEARS THE CHILD WILL ALWAYS BE AFRAID UNTIL THEY SEE WHAT IT IS.....UNTIL IT IS PROPERLY EXPLAINED THAT FEAR WILL TRAVEL WITH THEM. NO ONE KNOWS IT'S THERE, BUT IT IS......

Tomorrow, unless there are detours between now and then, we take a peek into the introductions to this tiny beings new world.......gently and slowly............©