FEEDING TIME.......
It is always best to breastfeed a baby, not only for the valuable nutrition and protection from the mothers immune system, but in a very large part for the close contact. This builds the babies self assurance and confidence in a very subtle manner. The closeness makes them feel wanted and important and PART OF SOMETHING SPECIAL. If breast feeding cannot be done for some or other reason, as least hold the baby in your arms while bottle feeding to ensure they suck properly and no air is sucked in to cause them discomfort and winds, but far more important, for the sake the closeness. Once they are able to sit in a few months, they can be placed in a chair or pram close to where you are busy so they have constant contact with you..... when this part is neglected, there is a gap, something missing that no one can put their finger on....just something missing, and invariably these babies, when a little older, will seek comfort from older people, placing them in great danger to child molesters.....every child is different and we should allow the child to withdraw when they are ready, they will push us away when they are emotionally ready to be on their own. This is so important not to leave hollow gaps in the babies development....it ALWAYS FLASHES BACK LATER IN LIFE..
GIVE YOUR BABY THE BEST START THEY COULD EVER RECEIVE......BE THERE UNTIL THEY SHOW YOU IT IS OKAY NOW, THEN YOU ARE STILL THERE, YOU ARE ALWAYS THERE, BUT NOT SO APPARENT......
THE COT AND PRAM FEEDING BABY..... need to cry to inform the mother that they have a need.....when there is not a immediate response, the seeds of inferiority and timidness start growing,
they are not important enough to be acknowledged, theirs calls are being neglected, the feel unsure, scared, maybe even angry......this may be their first experience with frustration and anger.... seeds that are planted because they are being ignored.... THIS IS A VERY SENSITIVE AND IMPORTANT TIME A HUMAN LIFE.....SEEDS ARE BEING PLANTED AND NOBODY IS AWARE OF THIS TO REMOVE THEM AND REPLANT SEEDS OF POSITIVITY.....SO THESE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS DEVELOP DAY BY DAY, EVERY SINGLE TIME THE BABY HAS TO CRY TO CALL FOR HELP THESE NEGATIVE SEEDS ARE BEING WATERED. BY THE TIME THEY START CRAWLING THEY ARE ALREADY TEMPERAMENTAL, ANGRY, FRUSTRATED AND AGITATED.... NICE WAY FOR THE POOR CHILD TO START LIFE....ALREADY AT A DISADVANTAGE......THINK WHAT YOU DO WITH YOUR BABIES, OTHERWISE, DON'T BRING A CHILD INTO THE WORLD TO DESTROY IT... .. PLEASE.....PLEASE...THINK WHAT YOU ARE DOING...... ©
THE COT AND PRAM FEEDING BABY..... need to cry to inform the mother that they have a need.....when there is not a immediate response, the seeds of inferiority and timidness start growing,
they are not important enough to be acknowledged, theirs calls are being neglected, the feel unsure, scared, maybe even angry......this may be their first experience with frustration and anger.... seeds that are planted because they are being ignored.... THIS IS A VERY SENSITIVE AND IMPORTANT TIME A HUMAN LIFE.....SEEDS ARE BEING PLANTED AND NOBODY IS AWARE OF THIS TO REMOVE THEM AND REPLANT SEEDS OF POSITIVITY.....SO THESE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS DEVELOP DAY BY DAY, EVERY SINGLE TIME THE BABY HAS TO CRY TO CALL FOR HELP THESE NEGATIVE SEEDS ARE BEING WATERED. BY THE TIME THEY START CRAWLING THEY ARE ALREADY TEMPERAMENTAL, ANGRY, FRUSTRATED AND AGITATED.... NICE WAY FOR THE POOR CHILD TO START LIFE....ALREADY AT A DISADVANTAGE......THINK WHAT YOU DO WITH YOUR BABIES, OTHERWISE, DON'T BRING A CHILD INTO THE WORLD TO DESTROY IT... .. PLEASE.....PLEASE...THINK WHAT YOU ARE DOING...... ©
Tomorrow we take a look at the very important aspect of toys.......
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