OUR MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL TREES START GROWING THAT WEAVE A PATTERN THROUGH OUR THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS...........
LETS SEE HOW THESE NEW CHARACTERISTICS BRANCH OUT......
HERE IS A SKELETON GIVING US A BIT OF BACKGROUND ON WHICH WE WILL BUILD AS WE GO ALONG.....IT GIVES US THE GENERAL CONCEPT OF WHAT WE ARE LOOKING AT WHEN THESE CHARACTERISTICS START DEVELOPING AS A BABY GROWS.....
UNFAIRNESS : branches into indignation, hurt, confusion bringing forth fruit of wariness, insensitivity, or aggression, brutality........
MISUNDERSTANDING : branches into confusion, withdrawal, stubbornness bringing forth fruit of lack of interest, or rebellion, troubled attitude, irritable.....
REJECTION : branches into cageyness, reservation, introvert bringing the fruit of lack of cooperation, insecurity, pulling away......
FEAR : branches into timidness, phobias, dullness, passitivity bearing fruits of aloofness, frigidity, sloth, lack of willingness to test and try......
INSECURITY : branches into multiple personalities, always hiding, trying not to be there bringing the fruit of pretense, falseness, weariness.......
ISOLATION : branches into withdrawal again, hermitism producing selfishness, indifference, being unemotional.......
LONLINESS : branches into sadness, negativity, vulnerability which bring forth depression, making us disagreeable, easy targets for bullies....
ANXIETY : branches into nervousness, illnesses associated with nerves bringing eating disorders, hyperactivity, inattentiveness, distress and unhappiness.....
DOUBT AND MISTRUST : branches into deviousness, hiding things, bearing the fruits of lies and deceit, being agitated, apprehensive........
We are going to pass through each stage and bring these threads with us to see how it actually influences our development, from conception to the stage of understanding is so incredibly important for the parents to be aware of the strange noises, sounds, movements in a home and how deeply it enters into our babies.
WE FORGET....WE ARE NOW ADULTS AND WE FORGET WHAT IT FELT LIKE BEING THAT BABY IN THE COT OR PRAM. IT IS NOT SO EASY FOR SOME TO SEND THEIR SPIRIT INTO THE BABY AND LOOK AT LIFE FROM THAT HELPLESS LONELY BABY. REMEMBER EVERY SOUND........EVERY SOUND IS NEW, WHEN THINGS MOVE.....LIKE CURTAINS IN THE BREEZE.....IT IS A MASSIVE PIECE IF SOMETHING MOVING WHICH THE CHILD DOES NOT KNOW.....IT IS TERRIFYING TO THE CHILD ESPECIALLY IF IT IS WAVING TOWARD THE COT....LIKE IT WANTS TO HIT THE CHILD.......THINK ......THINK..... THINK LIKE THE BABY. WHEN MOMMY IS IN THE KITCHEN AND BABY IS IN THE ROOM, IN A COT.....HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE HER TO GET THERE ???? ONE MINUTE IN A FEAR SITUATION FEELS LIKE A DAY.......IF YOU INSIST ON PUSHING THE BABY AWAY AFTER BIRTH AT LEAST CHUCK THEM INTO A PRAM WHICH YOU CAN MOVE AROUND WITH YOU WHEREVER YOU GO......
We now have a tiny taste of the very first developments.....©
Tomorrow we will have a brief look at a baby that us kept close and the characteristics that start developing there....the other side of the coin............
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