A CLEAN BREAK

BECOMING UNTANGLED

We go through life never thinking deeper than the surface, becoming entangled in so many strings and lose ends, eventually we don't know what is going on. Sometimes the best thing to do is a make a clean break, distance ourselves from life and start unraveling it from there. Unpaid debts follow us wherever we go,  not only the material kind, but also the emotional, spiritual kind. We can run but never hide - it travels within us wherever we go. Once we distance ourselves a little from the crows nest of life, we are able into start making sense of it all. The only way to truly break the noose around our necks, is to remove our neck from the noose - the more we pull away the tighter it draws. To loosen the noose we acknowledge and admit our error, we own it, make the necessary amends by paying the material debts, even if it is small amounts over a long period until it is paid off, otherwise it will block us in the future ...we go onto a black list and credit is denied due to bad debts. The emotional kind we resolve by making the necessary apologies and clearing the air, thereby ensuring our peaceful coexistence with all people. Through our different views and experiences we see life through different eyes and we most certainly do not have to agree on all things, but can respect each others views without becoming rude and insulting. When we insult others, the problem lays with us, our own lack and insecurities and that is what we need to deal with. The moment we belittle others, it shows our own lack of understanding and consideration and we belittle ourselves. So the clean break comes from dealing with each situation as it arises, NOT LEAVING LOSE STRINGS TO BECOME A CROWS NEST IN THE FIRST PLACE. IT WILL NOT JUST VANISH - IT NEEDS TO BE DEALT WITH....©

Tomorrow...dealing with situations....

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