BEWARE OF NOOSES

LIVING DEBT FREE

We carry different kinds of debts throughout life. We can separate it into living expenses debts like material things : a loan on a house or car, etc, insurances, pension and the likes. These can and are paid with money, so when we can't pay, we lose it. Then we have advancement debts : like accepting a job or position attached to certain "favours or paybacks" - one hand washes the other kind of debt - which we did not earn in an honest manner. THIS IS A VERY DANGEROUS DEBT TO INCUR BECAUSE IT PLACES US IN BONDAGE AND MAY 'FORCE' US TO DO THINGS WE DON'T WANT TO DUE TO THE OBLIGATION OTHERWISE WE LOSE THE JOB OR POSITION .....SOMEONE HAS A HOLD OVER US AND THAT IS NEVER A GOOD PLACE TO BE....IT TAKES US INTO THE PASSAGES OF DARKNESS. It is far better to remain free of this kind of debt and rather study, prepare and work toward the position we want to attain by earning it in the right, honest way remaining free from any obligations to a third party.... we earned it fair and square and owe no one anything. Then comes the emotional debts where we intentionally or unintentionally hurt someone's feelings....like breaking the trust in a relationship or partnership. These are far more difficult to rectify. As a child once threw my cat away from me in a fit of frustration, hurt and anger at being so 'misunderstood'. My cat, that used to be a shadow and followed me everywhere,  avoided me for some weeks thereafter causing me immense remorse, regret and heartache. Eventually he sort of trusted me enough again to come to me, but only after much effort and it just wasn't the same any more....some bond was broken, so terribly sadly...needless to say, I never repeated that same mistake again, but the damage was done and couldn't be undone. I never intentionally hurt an innocent person or creature again because of the hurt someone else brought upon me. I learnt a hard lesson....the cat did nothing wrong.....don't damage the innocent because of anger to the guilty. We often take out our frustrations and anger on someone or something weaker and smaller than ourselves, because we can't get to those that actually hurt us they always seem to be out of reach, being bigger, older and stronger than us. We don't want this type of emotional debt because it makes us feel even worse about ourselves and steals our humaneness taking us down the paths of rebellion and destruction, mostly of ourselves. Rather get a punching bag or go dig in the garden to get rid of the frustrations, this way nobody else gets hurt as well, breaking the cycle of hurt and saving ourselves much grief. Forgiveness is a marvelous tool to use in these instances, not so much to forgive those who hurt us, but more to free ourselves from the chains that hold us in bondage to that painful event.....when we forgive it is removed from us in a supernatural way and passed back to those who hurt us and we are free. To remain free in life, bite off only what we can chew, work our way up the ladder owing no one any thing on route, we take only what we can buy and pay for, preferably cash and get it done with. Be considerate when dealing with others. As far it is possible live at peace with all and don't accept 'offers' based on tomorrow. BE AWARE AND VIGILANT NOT TO FALL INTO THESE TRAPS WHERE WE OWE.....IT WILL SERVE US WELL..,

Tomorrow....true freedom.....