LIFE LONG COMMITMENT

COMPATIBILITY IN PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

When deciding on a life long,(hopefully) spouse to share our existence, days and nights, dreams and aspirations with, is far, far, far more than money or convenience, or looking for security, a good provider, or marrying into a family for prestige or power, there is still the living together under one roof, the possibility of children that have the birthright to a loving , caring family life where parents are compatible and love each other. Marriages of convince should not bring children onto the world and into the loveless marriages and houses. It is proclaimed that all beings are alike and the same, this is not true - there are the carnal beings whose only concern is material things and prosperity, money, possessions, house, car, outer appearances and what will people say and will do almost anything to be it. Without feeling bad, guilt, remorse or much of any emotion at all. Then there is the spiritual kind of person which is all about  love, emotion, compassion, fairness, nature, caring about the earth and others, the animals, etc and no caring much about material possessions, except as a tool to use when necessary. They would far rather live in the country side than any city or town and camp and do trails outdoors, and not shopping or restaurants and nightclubs. It is also said that opposites attract and balance each other.....maybe when romancing each other, but once the honeymoon is over, the drama starts......the carnal person will not yield but demand what they want and normally get it just to keep the peace. The emotional person is always the one that yields and yields and yields, giving up their entire life, their love of the outdoors, their camping and hiking trips....because the material person manipulates and controls their emotions through emotional blackmail. It is like two different molds that have shaped them and life becomes a total misery for the non material person. The only time emotions come into consideration for the material person is when they play and manipulate the others. FIND SOMEONE FROM YOUR OWN KIND TO GO INTO LIFE WITH.... or you will have endless sorrows, griefs, regrets and frustrations.....BE VERY CAREFUL AND WISE WHEN CHOOSING A PARTNER FOR LIFE....IT IS A LONG, LONG TIME TO MAKE SOMETHING WORK.....©

Tomorrow....full partnership.....

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