ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

GIVING LOVE AND ATTENTION

The right kind of attitude comes from corrective teaching when we share our time instead of preaching. Most of what a child needs when they are small and young, is the acknowledgement from family and fun.

When we actively partake in playing their games, we can teach them all the proper names. We see what they do and guide their eye. They learn far quicker when they receive attention, always guiding them into the right direction. Time is a very precious gift to bestow upon a child, it makes them part of the family, comforts them, makes them feel acknowledged and important. Soon enough they will go on their own. When we use attention and the discipline of love, they never learn to push and shove. When we leave them to their own devices, they get into all sorts of trouble that entices. We then use punishment as a means of control, which breaks their enthusiasm and spirit and the bond we have with them, instead of companionship and fellowship which builds them, and then fear is awoken inside their soul. They try to hide and become distant, silent and wary, opening the door to many troubles and misunderstandings because they no longer feel safe to open up to us. They no longer trust to come close to us for fear of reprimands and punishment. It brings into play a violent nature as they see beatings and shouting is the way in which to handle differences and misunderstandings. Later in life they start bullying others to rid themselves of the anger and frustrations they feel. When using love we correct as we go along, showing different ways and methods to deal with situations that will never cause them to stray. Our children should never fear to come to the parents, it's meant to be the place where they run. FROM THEIR FEARS. Parents are there to dry the tears and show them the truth behind all their fears. Teach them to have courage to face the dark without fear, give them the truth to ignite the spark that brings light into all situations. 

FEAR IS A TERRIBLE HABIT TO GAIN, it keeps us from so many adventures and experiences which benefit our growth and bring enormous enjoyment into our lives. Take fear and break it down into little pieces and together with the children analyse it and see why we fear, so they know how to deal with fear..... ©