MORALS - TRUTH AND RESPONSIBILITY.......
After the foundation of purity and the cement of love that weaves all together comes TRUTH, which is the building blocks we build with, walking hand in hand with responsibility. When a life is built on purity, using truth as bricks and cementing it with love ......there is no force that can destroy it. But.....it is not possible to do it single handedly, there are too many deceitful traps hidden and camouflaged as truth for us to be able to discern the difference as it is not visible to the human eye, we can only discern it through spiritual eyes because we need to see beyond the visible. When we make mistakes, which we all do, make wrong decisions, which we all do, overlook important details, which we all do, say and do unsavoury things, which we all do, it is VITAL TO OWN UP TO IT AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE FALL OUT, OTHERWISE IT BECOMES AN UNPAID DEBT AND WILL TAKE US INTO BONDAGE SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE. We should never have to fear owning up due to punishment. Rather pay what is due and finalize the situation, make it complete so that it is over and done. I do NOT agree with this method of teaching....using punishment. I believe in the discipline of love, where we are shown our error, why it is an error and what to do to fix it and make it right....to repair what's broken or to replace it, to return what's taken or replace it and to apologize when we speak out of turn and learn to be more considerate. When children drop something and it breaks and we scream and shout at them, they become scared and start hiding things away and pretending they know nothing.......and..... what is breeding here ?????? Deceit enters, lies enter to hide the fear of being shouted at or punished.....see the dangers...... Things that children can break should be out of their reach in the first place, but....if and when it does happen, please remember this is a little child, flesh and blood with a heart and feelings, what us broken is a dead object.......never love your property and ornaments more than than your children, it will backfire on you in a very bad way. We gather the broken pieces and show them how to glue it back together and make it whole again, otherwise we show them how we replace it, explaining that it costs money that has to be worked for, as they will learn later in life. BUT....PLEASE DON'T LAY A TON OF GUILT ONTO A CHILD BECAUSE OF ACCIDENTS, MISTAKES, WRONG MOVES, ETC.....SHOW THEM WHERE THEY WENT WRONG AND HOW TO MAKE RIGHT ON A WRONG. We must always show how to solve situations without aggression and violence. When we learn this early in life, we will be able to conquer any trouble or problem that arises because we have seen and learnt that there is always a way. When we DON'T learn this we will continue to err and it gets bigger each time until we land in the hands of the law and prison. We MUST learn accountability and responsibility as all actions and words have reactions and consequences. We should never be afraid to come forward and say " I broke this, please show me how to fix it, I said something wrong, how do I make amends, I made a mistake or wrong decision and it has blown up my face, what do I need to do to make this right"!! It is when we shy away from accountability that our deeds and words become prisons of captivity. When we learn responsibility we fix things before we move on so there are no loose strings that can become nooses around our necks later in our lives. WE SHOULD NEVER HAVE THIS FEAR CAUSING US TO DECEIVE, HIDE AWAY, LIE OR CHEAT. IT LEAVES US FEELING GUILTY, NERVOUS, DODGY AND WE START KEEPIN SECRETS AND SECRETS ARE PERFECT WEAPONS TO HOLD US IN BONDAGE...AT RANSOM.. DO THIS FOR ME AND I WILL NOT TELL ON YOU......RECOGNISE IT ??? I'M SURE YOU DO. IT ALWAYS COMES TO COLLECT US. This starts with overly strict and impatient parents. Teach children to always own up and be completely open so they will always be able to stand their ground...the never have to look down or lower themselves to the level of threats, because they have nothing to hide and therefore nothing to fear. Even through mistakes....teach them how to fix the mistakes or solve the problem. Even if there is punishment due, rather do the punishment than to forever be a slave to someone else because of dishonesty.....SPEAK THE TRUTH, THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH, SO HELP ME GOD......AND WALK AWAY FROM ANY AND ALL THREATS.
THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT QUALITIES TO DEVELOP WITHIN A CHILD.....TO NOT EVER FEAR DUE TO LACK OF TRUTH.....THESE LESSONS WILL KEEP US STANDING BUILDING OUR CONFIDENCE BECAUSE WE WILL KNIW THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY, AN ANSWER, A METHOD TO USE SO WE MAY REMAIN FREE FROM BEING BLACKMAILED AND THREATENED.....
THIS IS SO INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT BECAUSE THERE ARE MANY LAZY WOLVES IN THE WORLD THAT NEED OTHERS TO DO THEIR DIRTY WORK... DON'T LET YOUR CHILD BECOME ONE OF THEIR PAWNS...........©
Tomorrow we look at fairness and justice the cornerstones of our life's foundations.......
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