ASSERTING OURSELVES
Each little being born into the world has his/her own nature that needs to develop as individually as possible without caging and restricting what comes naturally. Soon after we start walking we start asserting ourselves and are very demanding. As we learn to stand on our own feet, we also have not start learning our place in the family. These days include a bunch of new activities like potty training, using a spoon and cup as we start weaning, and learn to do it for ourselves. We show our likes and dislikes in no uncertain terms and start developing into the beings we will become. It is good to give as much freedom, within the boundaries of safety and security as not to continually push the little one down....it is very good for them to learn who they are. If at all possible keep the baby at home until they can help themselves, I have seen some shocking potty training in creches.......... all the young ones sit in a row on potties and are sworn and insulted and told how naughty they are if they don't drop their load on command.....ready or not....they must perform.....and the the little beings are hollering and crying on these potties. It is horrendous....I was so shocked. What do these little children know about controlling their bodily excretions at this tender young age ????? And when they then soil their nappies, they are left like that until the next potty break, to teach them a lesson.....it is HORRIFIC...These children are then used as examples to the other children as they are insulted and ridiculed for having an accident..... can you just imagine the shame and degradation they experience at such an incredibly young age......the scars that they have to carry for the rest of their lives....this all goes deep into their emotions and minds.....and have serious insecurity issues.
When people bring children into this world, YOU MUST TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY AND ENSURE THAT THESE THINGS DON'T HAPPEN TO YOUR CHILDREN.....You can't just breed and pass them on to someone else. . it is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AND DUTY TOWARD THAT CHILD TO BE THERE UNTIL THEY CAN MANAGE ON THEIR OWN. . .IF YOU CAN'T OR DON'T WANT TO BE A STAY AT HOME MOTHER FOR THE FIRST 4-6 YEARS.........DON'T BRING A CHILD INTO THE WORLD......I have witnessed tiny babies in creches, laying in a cot naked and screaming, and screaming with no one taking any notice at all.....others naked, all ages, completely drugged, so goofed they don't even notice me.....with a toy soldier and a dinosaur in their hands, beating the soldier with the dinosaur.....totally in a dwaal .....when they get home they cry and scream all night long and the creches tell the parents to use liquid tranquilizers to put them to sleep.....while they are being molested at the creches.....getting discharges from their genetals which they call "creche syndrome".......THIS IS TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE. ......WHY ARE THESE CHILDREN NOT AT HOME ????
PARENTS OWE IT TO A CHILD TO BE THERE AND NOT TO PLACE THEM IN STRANGERS HANDS........ IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DO THE PARENT THING.......... DON'T HAVE A CHILD.... END IF STORY....©
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