CONFUSION....BLURRING....
When there are too many teachers in a young life, confusion reigns which could lead to lack of interest or becoming disgruntled, frustrated and rebellious. A young life should only have mother and father around for the first few years and both need to be on the same page, have a uniform pattern, as the child has so much to learn at this stage, they surely don't need confusion. Once the grounding and foundations are laid, all the different variations can be added, but not now. If and when there are more people involved, they need to lay down some ground rules as to all teach the same things within the same methods..... DON'T CONFUSE THE CHILD BECAUSE ADULTS DON'T AGREE.... DISCUSS THE UPBRINGING AND DO WHAT IS BEST FOR THE CHILD, PLEASE REMEMBER A PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER IS BEING BUILT...TREAD CAREFULLY...IT IS TERRIBLY CONFUSING AND FRUSTRATING WHEN WE DON'T KNOW WHICH WAY TO GO OR WHO TO LISTEN TO....IF A CRECHE IS INVOLVED, FOLLOW CLOSELY AND ENSURE THE CRECHE HAS THE SAME VALUE SYSTEM AS YOU DO, A CHILD LIKES TO PLEASE THE ADULTS, SO MAKE IT EASY FOR THE CHILD, IT IS LEARNING TO WALK, TO TALK, TO TOILET TRAIN, TO EAT AND DRINK, TO PLAY WITH THE RIGHT TOYS...IT IS AN AWFUL LOT AND THEY DON'T NEED ONE SAYING THIS WAY AND ANOTHER ONE SAYING THAT WAY......FIND THE CENTER PATH AND ALL FOLLOW THE SAME PATH. WE DON'T WANT THE CHILD IGNORING EVERYONE AND SHUTTING THEMSELVES IN A COCOON BECAUSE ALL THE DIFFERENT INSTRUCTIONS MAKE THEM AFRAID, BECAUSE THE ADULTS ARE GETTING ANGRY AND FIGHTING, AND IT IS SCARY FOR THE LITTLE ONE WHEN VOICES ARE RAISED, THEY START CRYING WHICH ADDS FUEL TO THE FIRE....IF WE SCREAM AT THEM THEY WILL WITHDRAW FROM US AND THE TRUST IS GONE....DO BE CAREFUL, IT IS VITAL TO KEEP A CLOSE BOND BETWEEN THE PARENTS AND CHILD FOR THE SAFETY OF BOTH..... WE NEED A CLEAR PATH WITH TOTAL OPENNESS AND TRANSPARENCY LEAST OUTSIDERS AND STRANGERS START LURING THE CHILD AWAY CAUSING DIVISION AND ENDLESS TROUBLE..... NO FAMILY NEEDS THAT.......©
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