SILENT PROTECTION

YOU JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND

We don't talk, we don't communicate, we are not open within a family. What concerns and affects one member, affects the entire family...there are to be NO SECRETS. As children we get up to all sorts of mischief, as teenagers.....we won't even talk.....then we get married and have to act like adults and become parents. We now have to fit into these new roles in life and try and guide our children past the mistakes we made. BUT THAT IS NOT HOW LIFE WORKS......ALL THINGS COME TO ALL PEOPLE, ONLY THE DISGUISES CHANGE A BIT. THIS IS HOW WE LEARN ABOUT LIFE. We cannot prevent it, ALL WE CAN DO is teach children HOW TO DEAL WITH SITUATIONS. Through what or through who these events come is irrelevant, what is relevant is to have the children prepared to do the right thing when it does happen. By the time we become parents  we feel we have to be an example to a child, like some god or goddess in their eyes, like we've never done shame or wrong. We have to act the perfect parent or what will the people say!!! So we try and hide our mistakes, especially the shameful ones and the soul hunters know this and use it on the children. They force the children into bad situations by telling them they will hurt the parents with their shameful past, unless they do as they are told, so TO PROTECT THE PARENTS the children fall into the clutches of darkness. YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND THEY CANNOT TALK because then a brother or sister or parents or a pet WILL BE HURT AND THEY DO HURT THEM, BUT.....THEY'RE GOING TO HURT THEM ANYWAY UNLESS THEY KNOW WHAT TO DO, JUST TO SHOW YOU THEY CAN AND WILL. SO IN SILENCE THEY ARE TORMENTED, MISLED AND FALL INTO TERRIBLE SITUATIONS FROM WHICH THEY CANNOT ESCAPE - ALL BECAUSE OF SECRETS AND LACK OF COMPLETE OPENNESS. THIS IS ONE GREAT LESSON WE SHOULD LEARN VERY YOUNG - DON'T DO ANYTHING THAT YOU WOULDN'T DO IN FRONT OF YOUR PARENTS, TEACHERS AND ESPECIALLY GOD......MAINLY GOD. Children must learn to say "NO CAN DO - GOD WOULD NOT APPROVE" and stand solidly. Then when parents, family, pets or anything is threatened we PLACE THEM UNDER GODS CARE WHERE THEY MUST FIRST GAIN PERMISSION FROM GOD, WHICH THEY ARE TOO AFRAID TO DO AND SAY " NO CAN DO" - it is vitally important - once trapped it is a nightmare to try and escape..... You don't even give a finger - NOTHING, ZILTCH, NADA.....NOT EVEN A FINGER. BE OPEN WITHIN A FAMILY - THERE CAN BE NO SECRETS - EVERYTHING HAS A REASON, MEANING AND PURPOSE....DIG FOR IT.....FIND IT..... EXPOSE IT ALL AND REMAIN OPEN OR DON'T START A FAMILY. Anything can be sorted with openness, love, consideration, understanding and explanation....ANYTHING....without throwing stones. STAND TOGETHER AS A FAMILY IN ALL THINGS....

Tomorrow....how can we overcome the monster called pain......